He also told an anecdotal story recently of how Si Gong once got in a fight and was too 'urgent,' stiff and tense. He stepped back and realised what was happening. He calmed himself down, removed that sense of urgency, relaxed and then won the fight.
Clearly it is hard enough to relax and be calm in the class room let alone when you're in a fight!
Someone asked why we don't train for those kind of high adrenaline situations by sparring fully with gloves etc.
From the discussion that ensued what I got from it was that this person was trying to run before they can walk. Sifu says that there is no point training for that until you can open your little idea. Otherwise this training will only train your big idea and make it harder to open your little idea.
You cannot rush this training.
Someone asked why we don't train for those kind of high adrenaline situations by sparring fully with gloves etc.
From the discussion that ensued what I got from it was that this person was trying to run before they can walk. Sifu says that there is no point training for that until you can open your little idea. Otherwise this training will only train your big idea and make it harder to open your little idea.
You cannot rush this training.